danisawildfire:

ohphil:

pro-tip: if you want to bring up dan and phil’s relationship when you meet them, don’t make it about “phan” and “dating”. talk to them about their friendship. tell them how admirable it is. tell them that you wish you had a friendship like theirs or that their bond is something that most people strive for their whole lives and never find. tell them that you can’t imagine being friends with someone for so long, or ask them about how cool it is to live with your best friend. if you want to talk about them as a pair, do them and everyone else a favor, and keep it platonic. to the public, they are nothing but best friends, and that’s how they need to be treated, no matter what you might believe to be true. be respectful and courteous and don’t be the cringey fan that makes them regret even leaving their houses.

honestly this needs at least a thousand notes